No worries here. I found how to disable the moderator icon. Not an issue with the theme 🙂
That one also was not related to the theme, correct 😉
If you click on your avatar/username and then select Profile.
I just tried this in the forums here and I know why you could not find the bar. It seems like there is only one tab active which would be equal to activity. However if there are multiple profile options active like Clubs or About me these options are shown like kind a browser tabs. Feel free to create an account for test a the forums and have a look for yourself.